My Father's War (1994)
My Father's War is a 1994 Dutch-language world war, 1939-1945 book written by Adriaan Van Dis.
Born in Holland after the war, a son grows up an outsider in his family and in the world, and endure the brutal military training his father puts him through, and wonders about the hardships the family has suffered. Years later, the son begins a quest into his family's past and the origins of his father's brutality.